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There are always cultural and social 2nd and 3rd order effects on mate poaching.I don't think this article encourages anyone doing anything.For these women, feeling superior has less to do with the man in question and how desirable he is, and more to do with being more powerful than and superior to the other woman. For starters, he cheated on her with you, so how could you ever know he wouldn’t treat you the same way? Mate poachers, whether they want commitment or just sex, have a range of tactics, from dissing the current partner (e.g., “You deserve someone better . We may not like the tactics, but sometimes they work and successfully (e.g., Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt seem to have stood the test of time, at least as far as we can see). You just might discover a competitive streak you never knew you had. D., is the author of God forbid a single woman wants to do anything else other than look for a permanent relationship that leads to monogamy, marriage, children and ideally a big house in the suburbs. Of course you will be in for some judgment if you purposefully pursue a man that you know made a commitment to another family.And the sex might quickly become hum-drum once he’s available. Women who want to concentrate on their careers, their hobbies, their friends, and may occasionally enjoy the company of a married man who will leave at the end of the evening and not blow up her phone are pariahs of society because they aren't performing culturally approved activities. It's not exactly victimless fun you're defending here, now is it? Sure he is, but that doesn't mean that we ought to be encouraging women to go after married men if that happens to be their thing, any more than we ought to be encouraging people to do anything else that leads to pain for others in a selfish desire for their own gratification. Valerie Golden Mate poaching is a robust phenomenon, and it is here to stay.
This topic has relativity regarding understanding mating motivators and drives for both sexes, not just "single women." I find your comment pretty insensitive and lacking in any real discourse. You did not stoop, and sometimes the truth has to be said.It's not like these adults get into these side relationships without any negative impact on their kids or spouse. You're basically saying that just because you're in an unhappy marriage, it's okay to be a liar, cheater and neglectful of the family.Regardless of whatever little harm you may think this has, I've yet to see a happy family, once the truth comes out. What if both sets of spouses have an agreement that their marriages are "open" - in other words, they are permitted to have intimate relationships outside of the marriage?Sometimes activities are culturally approved or disapproved of for good reason.Anon - I disagree with you regarding the idea that the cheating man is the "bigger card" for being a cheater.